top social

Saturday, 14 January 2017

14/1/2017 Saturday/Sabtu


Selamat pagi sabtu!

Saya suka dengan ayat motivasi di atas. Rasa bersemangat pulak menulis pagi sabtu ni. Bila gambar itu berkata, "Jangan sesekali biarkan sesiapa berkata yang anda tidak boleh melakukan sesuatu, termasuk saya. anda mempunyai harapan dan cita-cita, Anda mesti melindunginya. Bila mereka tidak boleh melakukan sesuatu, mereka juga akan mengatakan yang anda juga tidak boleh melakukannya. jika anda mahukan sesuatu, dapatkannya. Masa." (sekali baca period tu datang bulan hihi).

Memang betul. Kita boleh dengar, lihat dan nilaikan pendapat orang lain terhadap kita. Tetapi untuk membiarkan orang lain menentukan hala tuju hidup kita itu seharusnya tidak berlaku. Baik buruk keputusan yang kita ambil itu hidup kita. Jangan pernah menyesal dengan setiap apa yang pernah berlaku. Sekiranya kita gagal dalam hidup bukan bererti kita gagal selamanya. Tetapi sekiranya kita gagal berulang kali dengan benda yang sama, masalahnya ada pada diri kita sendiri. Renungkan dengan mendalam apa silap kita, apa benda yang perlu kita ubah dalam diri agar kesalahan yang sama tidak berulang lagi. Jangan kita terus menyalahkan orang lain melainkan diri kita sendiri. Orang bijak pandai berkata, setiap kegagalan mengajar kita erti manisnya sebuah kejayaan. Senyum. Senyum itu perlu dari hati. Kalau bibir senyum tetapi hati mati, jadilah senyuman ngeri. heee ;p

 Setiap daripada kita mempunyai keinginan, mempunyai impian dan angan-angan. Tetapi tahukah anda bahawa modal utama untuk kita mencapai setiap keinginan atau angan-angan itu bukanlah wang semata-mata. Modal utama kita ialah keberanian. Dalam setiap individu perlu adanya keberanian yang tebal. Keberanian untuk menghadapi segala risiko yang berlaku. Keberanian berdepan masalah. Jangan mudah menyerah atau berputus asa. Yang penting kita perlu gigih serta focus dengan matlamat hidup kita. Biarlah apa orang nak kata. Hidup kita hak kita. Tapi jangan sesekali kita mengejar sesuatu itu sampai mengabaikan benda yang terpenting dalam hidup kita. Terutamanya keluarga kita. Orang yang kita sayang. Jangan sampai seperti peribahasa Melayu, "kera di hutan disusukan anak di rumah mati kelaparan". Maksudnya kita lebih mengutamakan kepentingan di luar dari apa yang sangat penting dalam hidup kita. Kejar kejayaan tapi jangan sampai lupa daratan okay. Bila kita lupa diri, semuanya mudah hilang dan pergi. Jadi, tak perlulah kita tamak dalam mengejar kejayaan. Nanti yang dikejar tak dapat, yang dikendong pulak berciciran. Kita mungkin tak cukup baik di mata semua orang tetapi ketahuilah bahawa kita sentiasa terbaik di mata keluarga serta kesayangan kita. Jadi jangan pernah mengabai benda yang kita ada. Apapun yang terjadi dalam hidup kita, percayalah all things are done according to God's plan. Yakinlah akan selalu baik pada akhinya. Amen :)

Thank you. Happy Weekend!

 i miss you toink2

Monday, 9 January 2017

My first blog for 2017 is....

2017

Many people start a new year without having specific resolutions. Me too. Personally, I'm not a big fan of New Years resolutions. But, before I start the New Year, I’m making sure to leave something behind from 2016, like; some mistakes, my disappointments, blame, fears,... the list could go on and on. So, when I leave something behind, I create a space for something new to enter my life. Something positive that will take me in the direction of my purpose in this life. :D

In 2017 I shall be kind to myself. I want to focus more on the things that bring joy to my life, and less on the things that are making me feel stressed. Love. I'll show people around me, my family and friends that I love them. Treat everyone I meet exactly as I would have them treat me. Write my blog at least once a month (preferably more often) hehe. Take care of my hair and skin. Be daring :)=

One word sums it up : Hope. I hope we reach the end of 2017 complete, together, and unbroken. Wherever this journey leads us, I hope we all reach our destination as better versions of ourselves. 

Good Luck and God Bless Everyone!!

Thursday, 8 December 2016

Consider a situation..

8/12/2016


Consider a situation: You're eating breakfast with your family. Your daughter knocks over a cup of coffee onto your business shirt. You curse. You harshly scold your daughter for knocking the cup over. She breaks down in tears.

After scolding her, you turn to your wife and criticize her for placing the cup too close to the edge of the table. A short verbal battle follows. You storm upstairs and change your shirt. Back downstairs you find your daughter has been too busy crying to finish breakfast and get ready for school. She misses the bus. Your wife must leave immediately for work. You rush to the car and drive your daughter to school. Because you are late, you drive 80 km an hour in a 60 kmph speed limit. After a 15 minute delay and paying a $60 traffic fine, you arrived at school. Your daughter runs to the building without saying good-bye.

After arriving at the office 30 minutes late, you find you forgot your briefcase. Your day has started terrible. As it continues, it seems to get worse and worse. You look forward to going home. When you arrive home you find a small wedge in your relationship with your wife and daughter. Why? Because of how you reacted in the morning.


Why did you have a bad day?
A) Did the coffee cause it?
B) Did your daughter cause it?
C) Did the traffic policeman cause it?
D) Did you cause it?

The answer is D.

You had no control over what happened with the coffee. How you reacted in those 5 seconds is what caused your bad day. Here is what could have and should have happened. Coffee splashes over you. Your daughter is about to cry. You gently say "It's OK honey, you just need to be more careful next time". Grabbing a towel you rush upstairs. After grabbing a new shirt and your briefcase. You come back down in time look through the window and see your child getting on the bus. She turns and waves. You and your wife kiss before you both go to work. You arrive 5 minutes early and cheerfully greet the staff. Your boss comments on how good a day you are having. Notice the difference. Two different scenarios. Both started the same. Both ended different. Why? Because of how you REACTED. You really do not have any control over 10% of what happens. The other 90% is determined by your reaction.

Here are some ways to apply the 90/10 secret:

If someone says something negative about you, do not be a sponge. Let the attack roll off like water on glass. You don't have to let the negative comment affect you! React properly and it will not ruin your day. A wrong reaction could result in losing a friend, being fired, getting stressed out, etc.

How do you react if someone cuts you off in traffic? Do you lose your temper? Pound the steering wheel till it fall off? Do you curse? Does your blood pressure skyrocket? Do you try and bump them? WHO CARES if you arrive ten seconds later at work? Why let the blue car ruin your drive.

Remember the 90-10 principle, and do not worry about it! You are told you lost your job. Why lose sleep or get irritated? It will work out. Channel your energy and time into finding another job. The plane is late. It is going to mangle your schedule for the day. Why vent out your frustration on the flight attendant? She has no control over what is going on. Use your time to read, get to know the other passengers, etc. Why get stressed out? It will just make things worse. Now you know the 90-10 secret. Apply it and you will be amazed at the results.


Credit to : Elite Readers



LinkWithin

Related Posts Plugin for WordPress, Blogger...